It seems to make sense, on the surface. If you aren’t very smart, the belief is that you will make decisions which aren’t very smart. This can lead to failed relationships in business and at home, which means you will never achieve all that you can.
Since most of us do not enjoy a high IQ, this could be a real problem. However, groundbreaking research into what drives success in your career and home life tells us we have been on the wrong path to goal achievement and relationship improvement.
See what Dr. Patty Ann Dublin, Emotional Intelligence and Communication Corporate Consultant and best-selling author, has to say about IQ and emotional intelligence:
“Arguably, a high level of emotional intelligence trumps a high level of IQ every time. No one really cares how smart you are if you cannot get along with people. If people find you to be abrasive, divisive and/or obnoxious, your career in business will take a direct hit as a consequence of your behavior. No one will want to work with you – or for you. You’re not that smart that people will be willing to tolerate you making them feel miserable, stupid, and angry or any other negative emotion that no one in their right mind wants to experience.”
Simply put, emotional intelligence is your ability to recognize and understand your feelings, as well as those of others, and then use that understanding to successfully motivate yourself and others, and manage emotions and relationships.
Think of emotional intelligence as EQ. Your IQ gives you a rough idea about how mentally intelligent you are, and your EQ describes how emotionally capable you are (your emotional quotient as opposed to your intelligence quotient).
When you think about it, what is more important in cultivating and maintaining great relationships? Your emotions are dramatically more influential than your intelligence level on the relationships you have at home and on-the-job.
This means if you can develop a high level of emotional intelligence, any time you interact with another person you can make that interaction beneficial for both you and the party you are dealing with.
The issue is that so many people don’t know how to better understand and manage their emotions.
If you don’t know how to ramp up your emotional intelligence, the following scenarios are going to be very familiar to you:
When you truly understand the ins and outs of emotional intelligence, your relationships, and emotional wellness improve dramatically. You stop “bumping your head up against the wall” trying to understand other people, and why they do what they do.
You begin to understand and master your emotions and self-regulate in proactive and positive ways.
You advance on the job and in your career much more effortlessly than if you do not have great emotional intelligence skills.
Any time you interact with someone, you know how to look for verbal and nonverbal cues that reveal what someone is really “saying”, rather than that what they may verbally be saying.
You enjoy less stress and anxiety because it is as if a veil is lifted from your life, revealing the real meaning, true intentions and core emotional influences that are driving your behaviors, and the behaviors of other people.
This bundle contains material combining Astrology, Psychology & Advanced Coaching that will teach you how to explore your Emotional Self and embrace & master your emotions.
IQ has its place in life, as does emotional intelligence. You should always strive to be a balanced person, being as smart and capable mentally and emotionally as you possibly can be.
The great news is that unlike IQ, emotional intelligence & emotion mastery can be learned and perfected to yield amazing results in your professional and personal life.
To begin achieving more fulfillment and success in all areas of your life, download your copy of Emotional Mastery: The Ultimate Bundle today!
To say that this could be a life-changing material is probably an understatement, since emotional skills and understanding emotions and relationships has never been thought to be as important as IQ for success in life.
If you have struggled to achieve fulfillment and success in any part of your life and you have struggled to deal with your emotions, you owe it yourself to learn more about improving your emotional intelligence.